Who cares what the OW is telling him...She is probably telling him all kinds of things about you as well. You can not control that. However what you can control is the way you show him that you love him. Actions speak louder than words here. Trust me he knows you love him.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
Trust you how???....has he told you that (hint, hint, nudge, nudge) I talked to him the other night and said that sometimes he doesn't think I do.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Yes, but all of his answers are "I don't know." I told him that if I didn't love him, I wouldn't be going through this. I wouldn't be holding on. That I would have walked away a long time ago. I just think that it is an excuse.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
NGU - My H believes I don't love him either or that I didn't...that I stopped. I'm not sure really how to show him that I do, especially since he's gone.
For me - and maybe it's wrong but I still pepper conversations every now and again with either an ILY or a love,me (email).....
I want him to know that I DO.....and I'll work forever to show him I mean it.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Ok...just wanted to let you know that I did contact H just a few minutes ago. I am continuing my C sessions and gave him an invitation. You never know if or when he will say "Ok, I will meet you there." That is all I talked about and when I hung up I did not say ILY. OUCH! That hurt.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
