Oh and I just thought of something else. About your H loving you. I felt the same way - still do I guess but my H said the strangest thing the other day when I said it was hard for me not having his love (we were having a mini R talk which H is OK with BTW) He said he still loved me while we were appart so of course he loves me now. I thought to myself that wasn't what he was saying when we were appart. Like Cat says, it is just their alien side talking. I don't think your H would be back if he didn't love you. He just can't say it yet. Neither can mine. I'm sure we'll both hear it again soon. IP
