Piglet, Thanks for being there for me. I actually don't think that I will ever get an apology because that would in a sense mean that H admits to doing something wrong. So, it is a cheeseless tunnel to expect one.
I never really thought of it before but I would have to say that my love language is words of affirmation. It is something that I have always wanted even going back to childhood. I long for someone to tell me that I am a good person and to acknowledge that they realize that I am doing my best and they love me for it. Ok, can you tell that I am insecure and have zero confidence in myself. How can anyone love someone who doesn't feel worthy of that love?
In defense of my H, he probably thinks he is doing all the right things but because it is not the things that I need I am not giving him any credit.
