I know exactly how you are feeling. One of the main issues we are dealing with concerning the A is that my H said "there were times I felt bad, other times I felt it wouldn't bother you because you are such a strong person". I have always been strong, that is one of the qualities H said he fell in love with but it seems that is one of the things that led him into the A too (him not being needed by me). I have tried to tell him that regardless of the fact I am strong, that doesn't mean I don't need him - he seemed surprised to hear that.

We all need each other, no man is an island - like they say

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)