My H started seeing the OW a week after leaving me. That is incredibly hurtful for the LBS, that we can be discarded so quickly, but the WAS only do it to try to make themselves feel better. The OW will validate them and their decision and the intoxication of a new R helps to supress any niggling doubts they might have.
He may well get hurt by the OW, equally he might end up hurting her. Either way, you have to let him live his own life and experience his own mistakes.
Any why are you calling to fuss??!!
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
