My H also had the A right after he left, and I do believe him he didnt leave me for her, we had our problems. The thing is, after leaving the home the WAS is so vulnerable and if anyone pays them special attention and they feel conforted, BINGO! infatuation sets in and they seek refuge in this new person.
Why are you calling him to fuss? is that going to bring him back or giving ammo and reasons to stay away? You need to show him that you are a different person now.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.