GGB,
I wrote it down on an old phone company solicitation (aka junk mail) and kept it at my desk until we moved. It's GAWN my friend. As far as finding an email message from 3.5 years ago, are you serious?? Can people actually do that?
I should tell you that I don't have the same computer as I did then..
Anyway, my junk mail notation was working quite nicely until the move forced me to..ahem..streamline my desk.

Jenny you are quite possibly the only person on the bb who will GET everything I said above. LOLOL

P.S. I think you handled your H beautifully in the bad anecdote. That is exactly what you should do everytime. Every time girl. It throws his silliness back in his face and makes him see how dorky he's being, rather than causing YOU to act like a dork and actually take his bait.
Good job, way to go and good luck on the refi. I sorta rescind my new mental nickname for your H which rhymes with brothertrucker. My baby sister is married to a fat lazy pharmacist and that is her pet name for her H. Which is hilarious since the two of us would not say that word out loud to any other person in the world but have no problems saying it to each other. The point of this anecdote is to say that you have officially reached sister status with me.