I don't say it all of the time.....There are times that we talk that I don't say it. It bothers me not to because I know that OW is saying it to him all of the time.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."