I would not tell him too bad. That was just a mental thought of mine.
Maybe we can get the kids together to play one week that you have them...seeing that Karla doesn't seem too keen on them being at my house while you are at work.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
That would be fine. I was thinking of takeing the kids to a movie next weekend.
By the way that is just Karlas way of trying to control me. She does not realize how much control she has lost. She is trying to act like a caring parent but if she really cared about them being over there don't you think she would show up at the house and pick them up before I left for work...
This is exactly the point I am trying to get across to you. Just let go and quit trying to control everything.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
A word of caution: Be careful that you're not "giving him a taste of life without you" out of spite...he needs to see you truly let go and be happy inside yourself. Don't get too huffy about visitation, etc. You want to show him what he's missing, not make him angry and put him on the defensive.
Well you would all be proud of me. Cell phone just rang and it was H. Did not answer it. I will give it about an hour and then maybe call him back. My tendency is to answer on the first ring or call him back the second I see that he has called.
Was that the right thing to do? I would say YES!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
To be honest Aud, I feel fine right now. I read some of your posts to me and I cry but that is just me being emotional. I truly am happy. I would be so much happier if H would wake up, but I really am happy with myself and where I am. I know that I am becoming better and that I am so much stronger than I ever could have imagined. I just have to take my own advice here...."Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands." I have to keep reminding myself of that.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Oh, I don't mean to make you cry! I know you are giving everything you have and then some. This is all so hard. And heaven knows I don't have all the answers. I am glad you feel happy. Hang on to that. God will guide you.
Well, nothing new to really report. I waited until 5:45 to call H back. He didn't answer of course so I left him a vm. Told him that I was returning his call.
Convo when he called back: H: Sorry I missed your call. Did you need something? M: Nope, just returning your call from earlier. H: Oh, ok. I just wanted to let you know that I won't be over again tonight. I am still running a temp. M: Alright. H: What's wrong? M: Nothing. Just giving you your space. H: Ok. I will probably talk to you tomorrow. M: Alright. I will talk to you later. H: Ok. M: ILY H: Alright M: Bye H: Bye
That was it.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
I don't say it all of the time.....There are times that we talk that I don't say it. It bothers me not to because I know that OW is saying it to him all of the time.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
