I need help to make this work

[KarenR]

Hi there,
You don't say how old you and your wife are, but it sounds like she is quite immature. Are you reading any of Michele's books, especially Divorce Remedy? Also, if you can talk to a divorcebusting.coach, they will be able to guide you in the techniques that are talked about on this site. Being in the military adds another dimension to the issues, as you have a forced separation. It is important that you have contact and that the contact is constructive, and not angry or only about money...this is what the coachs are experts at helping you with. Best of luck.