Alright, most of us have little save fantasy right now so let's put it to some entertaining use: What are the words you would most like to hear from your cheating spouse? Don't act like you haven't dreamed it and pictured it...put your little fingers to work and let's see what we get.
example: "yes, dear, you're right, I have been an idiot. I did not work on myself up to now and I used you as a scapgoat upon which to blame the failures of our relationship. From now on if there is any problem I will look to myself first, not just blame it on you. Let's recommit to one another and I will mean it this time. I will put my ring back on and settle down and go to work."
Just my fantasy...what's yours? Don't take this too seriously, ie: I don't think I'm blameless but I'd LIKE to hear this. What would the rest of you like to hear?
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby