Hi All, Not much to report here although I am still grappling with the fact that I do not trust my H. The big issue for me is this, and I am going to have to confront him about it. H leaves for work very early in the morning, now if he was working an 8 hour shift and I account for 1 hour break/lunch and drive time to and from work then I feel he should be home 10 hours later, right? Sometimes he is gone longer and according to his pay (I haven't seen his actual paycheck in over a year - since A started) I know he doesn't always work an 8 hour shift. Of course, right away I assume he is spending time with OW before he comes home to me.
I hate having these feelings as it builds up resentment. Any ideas on how I can approach this subject with H without causing him to become angry and defensive?
