don't get it! Help!

[kissak]

Is it normal or a bad sign if the WAH acts like he is ok with leaving and that it doesn't bother him if I call and fuss at him about things. My Husband always says that he understands when I fuss at him about leaving. It's like he knows I have a right to be upset and angry at him. It doesn't bother him unless I start blaming him for something he thinks he's innocent of. I feel like he doesn't care that he hurt me and that he expects me to be upset with him. Will it ever start to bother him instead of him being ok with it. He started seeing this OW immediatley after he left. It makes me sad to see that he might just get hurt being with her. I want to tell him that, not just because I want him back, I just don't want to see him hurt. I genuinely care about him as a person, not just my husband.