Yes, we do have to trust them - but that is the hardest part for me. I have always been the kind of person that upholds honesty and believes it to be one of the greatest virtues. However, the R H and I have had for the past number of years has been riddled with lies and disceet, even about stupid little things that I found out about, and its like I can't believe anything he says anymore - this makes it extremely hard to trust.

I know I have to get past that if this R is going to work but this is the second time we are going through this and although he is much different this time around (actually seeming like he wants to make things better) I question as to whether that is not just another one of his ploys to get me to believe more of his lies so he can reoffend again. I know that's not a good way to look at things but I am just going by past behaviour

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)