HD in one of my "ok I'm going bring up my lack of satisfaction with sexlife talks" I asked a simple but tough question. " I am unhappy with the way things are, what do you expect me to do, what do you think I should do? " Somehow that flipped the script at that particular time. I know I wasn't taking the lead in the relationship in fact I didn't even ask about the relationship at all. At the time it was a 180. And it was something that she had not thought about at the time.
