4ever Found your thread...I'm no expert at this but I would urge you to continue as you are doing. You are in the same house right now and that is good. I don't really know what else to say. Do try and forgive yourself though. I think I forgive H for what he is doing. I keep reminding myself that S don't leave happy marriages so that makes the other S partly responsible for the breakdown too. I recognise where I went wrong. I hope that your H will change his mind...but remember being his friend is leaving it open for him to fall in love with you again (I think).
Me 36 ring on H 41 ring off S2 Together since 1992 Married: 2000 Bomb Aug 06 H moved out Oct 06 (and straight in with OW)
