I think that does make some sense. I will keep in mind that she could be depressed. I don't know im trying I thought that it would be she would come back and I love you come cuddle me lets ML and lets spend time together. I guess im disapointed that things didn't turn out that way, but Im and adult and im just happy enough to have my family back. I still wonder if she is thinking about someone else from time to time but she is still earning my trust back, and to an extent she doesn't understand that but she has violated my trust time in and time out while we were apart and even when we got back together. Im hoping she is wanting us to work and not using me till she can find someone else.