You know what it would take to be comfortable with your W. Think about it just for a second....You found someone who is genuienly interested in you...OW...W sees that and starts to get jealous because she is loosing what she believes she controls...YOU...Talk to the W and make her make choice. Be honesy with her. Tell her that you would be willing to give it a chance if she cuts the ties with the jail bird. You know where you stand. You will be happy no matter what she decides.
You do not NEED her...However, you still want her and your family so I would give it a shot. Just my 2 cents. Ben
P.S. It will take more than just an agreement to make this work though...but you already know this...
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."