Bizarre situation

[geordie]

H

Thanks for the links. I posted on your thread. Your strength is inspiring.

I read so much back in Aug although I need to go back and read again as it is easy to get sidetracked. I also have something about different types of A's and the chances of them lasting, characteristics of people involved etc...it's really interesting and helped me a lot. I have it in pdf form and you are welcome to read it if you would like.

Well, this evening when I returned home H was very nice to me. Enjoyed telling me about his day with S1. Out of the blue he hugged me and said "I know we need to talk, we'll do it at the weekend, OK". I smiled and just said that I think it would be a shame to throw away the past 14yrs. He hasn't said the "talk" word since he wanted to "talk" to tell me he didn't want me anymore, and that was back in Sept. He thanked me for cooking his dinner. I noticed things of his still in the house and he has not taken S's car seat out of his car (that's a first, the spare seat usually stays in the house). He called me 30 mins into his drive to OW to check on me and make sure I was doing OK cooking rice (he is very particular about cooking rice....should be on Iron Chef or something)...I can't help but get hopeful that he is considering a move back...but I know I should expect a step backward since we seem to have had a good day today. Oh..this is hard.