Love that you own the idea of not being able to control anyone else's actions, only your response. Isn't that just about the best bit of knowledge you've gained out of this experience?

As a teacher, really, really learning this, owning it, has transformed my classroom.

I never want to go back, but aren't you a little bit happy for this whole experience? I am...

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!