Wow. No, I mean WOW! I've been pondering over a thought for some time that degree of desire depends largely on how much you ruminate about sex when it isn't right there in front of you. I've found that when I get too busy to think about it during the day, I have a far lower desire that night than I do when I've been daydreaming about it. It seems the same is true for MrsGGB, although she tends to suppress sexual thoughts or so she says. On first reading this from you, I was thinking, well yeah, HP's all wrapped up in getting the new house livable, and prolly chasing Babypot and her two sisters all over the place (J and M have gotten to be quite the handful. house-wreckers they are), so I'm sure you've got much less time to be pondering a good romp...or to be nosing about this BB for that matter...than you had before you moved. So anyway, that was what I was thinking was going on with you....until I got to that part about you getting regular cycles for the first time in your life. Hmm, that's weird/interesting. Be careful with that, you might be more fertile than you had been before now too.
I find it very interesting that even though you know from an HD perspective how totally icky the if you want it you'll have to get my motor started too bit is, that it is still very hard to get out of that mindset.
This especially perked my ears up because MrsGGB has said exactly this on more than one occasion: "feeling of being judged and monitored. Of not living up to someone else's expectations. Of being in a mindframe where you just want to *prove* something about yourself. Of trying to "make up for it" by doing other non-sexual stuff". So what can an HD H do to help his LDW get around those feelings?
