I agree that the new design isn't as user friendly. Maybe it's time to wean myself off of here? I am waiting to see if our divorce will go through smoothly, that would be a relief. More and more folk that I know here are not posting any more, bar a few old faithfuls like you, Ellie.

Another thing, these forums can be addictive and time consuming, and I end up with a numb butt and extra weight too. But this was a life saver in the early days, when thoughts about the recently left SO were obsessive and I was all in pieces emotionally. I have had great support and learnt so many life skills.

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates