Oh hon. It sounds like to me that you are experiencing natural evolution in the R. Schnarch talks about this. It also sounds like you are experiencing some normal effects of hormonal status. It must be quite a shocker. I think the only thing that has saved H the last few months has been some of the physical effects of pregnancy - the exhaustion, up/down emotions etc... However, I can forsee a time where if my drive were removed due to some other phsical/mental factor - the whole balance of the R would change. I hate to say it - but yeah, this is probably another chance for you and Mr. HP to grow.
