I would not tell him too bad. That was just a mental thought of mine.
Maybe we can get the kids together to play one week that you have them...seeing that Karla doesn't seem too keen on them being at my house while you are at work.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."