I am always here for you if you need it. You know that. Plus I still owe you anyway...

By the way about the boundries with the kids. I do not know about telling him if he works too bad. That is not the point of lovingly detatching. I would put it this way. If you have to work on the days you are supposed to see the kids you will need to call me and we will have to work out another day. Just put the ball in his court and let him do what he has to do.

If you ever need to chat you know my number.


Ben 32
STBXW 29
3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months)
Status: Fighting for the Kids.

"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."