Stubbor/Aud/OSU, Thank you for your advice. I will take it. I PROMISE!!!!!!!!!! I have decided not to answer cell phone when H or OW calls. I will not sit and try to talk to him about anything. I will entertain myself with the dishes or S4months or something else. I will let him see that I am moving on. To be honest, I really think I need to. I have put my life on hold for him for the past 4 1/2 months and look where it has gotten me....20 lbs lighter and emotionally drained. I guess the 20 lbs lighter isn't such a bad thing.
I am also debating about telling him that he can only come over on Monday, Wednesday and every other Saturday. If he works, too bad. I was planning on doing that Monday night, but he didn't stick around after he dropped the kids off.
So there it is. I am still standing for my M but I am going to distance myself from him. He wants to see how his life will be should we D, then his wish is granted. Let him get a taste of it. I will need strength to get through this....so Ben, if I call you to get myself out of the house, please don't be surprised.
Thanks guys...and gal...I needed this one!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
