Patience, Love and (really) long suffering

[BeingMe]

To the cheating spouse (or, has cheated), their sitch was different to everyone else's. My H still doesn't recall half of what happened, or was said. I think it is a self preservation thing. I've also watched that show where the cheater gets caught, and it blows me away at how many of them blame their H or W or GF/BF for their cheating. I think there is some part of them that just didn't grow any empathy.