If you want to keep all your stuff on one thread and if you know how to post a link to that one thread, I'll check it periodically or if you have a specific question for me then continue to post here and let me know to check your thread. That way you don't have to post the same thing on a bunch of different threads.
One thing that I do know, is that in the beginning, everything that happens, every move, comment or behavior seems definative. They are not! It is more about the big picture. Taking a long view of the situation will help you to stay off the roller coaster. As they say over on the MLC board (have you checked it out yet?): "grab some popcorn and take a seat on the curb." Watch the roller coaster from there(the curb) instead of being a passanger,hanging on to the outside of the "car" by a rope.
Again: Read up on MLC!!
David, try to detach enough so that you are not rocked by every thing she does. It will help you in keeping your PMA.