David,

I haven't had much time to read or post lately.

If you want to keep all your stuff on one thread and if you know how to post a link to that one thread, I'll check it periodically or if you have a specific question for me then continue to post here and let me know to check your thread. That way you don't have to post the same thing on a bunch of different threads.

One thing that I do know, is that in the beginning, everything that happens, every move, comment or behavior seems definative. They are not! It is more about the big picture. Taking a long view of the situation will help you to stay off the roller coaster. As they say over on the MLC board (have you checked it out yet?): "grab some popcorn and take a seat on the curb." Watch the roller coaster from there(the curb) instead of being a passanger,hanging on to the outside of the "car" by a rope.

Again: Read up on MLC!!

David, try to detach enough so that you are not rocked by every thing she does. It will help you in keeping your PMA.

Hugs to you and yours!