My husband used to kiss me once in awhile, and now doesn't at all. I also need the kisses to become and stay aroused. I have asked him directly and indirectly, have tried to initiate kissing, but he jerks his face away. He does want intercourse, tho, his way, his time. I have told him what I need to feel good, and he has never once done any of those things since I mentioned them. We seem to have sex about 3 or 4 times a week. I enjoy it about once a month. I am very full of despair about this, and have ordered the sSM book. It should arrive next week. HELP!!!!