I am not clear on what types of goals would make sense. We are getting along quite well with the exception that the divorce is still firmly on the table (as you remember from my discussion of last weekend).
I have now done the things that I feel that I need to do and can hopefully let go more.
Since we get along, I am not sure what reasonable goals are. The one that I really want is that she we won't start mediation, but other than adopting a hands-off approach, I am not sure what to do.
