My husband wants alot of quickie sex. I have asked him to slow down, to kiss me, hug me, try a different position, etc. but he just laughs and ignores me. It makes me feel like he is using me as a masturbator and not at all interested in pleasing me. I have literally begged him to kiss me passionately but haven't gotten that kiss. If I reject him, it's world war III. I have ordered the book SSM and it should arrive next week. I am looking for quality. We have had lots of issues and I have worked with your coach Joanne. I have my goals for 2007 written out, and they seem like something that should almost be "understood". I would like to be really (2 arms, with strength) hugged each day. I would like to be really kissed once each day. I would like foreplay once a week that feels good to me. I am not sure why he doesn't believe me when I tell him I really need these things.
