The counselor has not met with me and is only reacting to what my wife said. She selected him because he is "pro-divorce" based upon an article that he had written (my words). He counseled her to let me know she wanted a divorce and she would not reconsider after their first 50 minute session.
Anyway, this is not the main thing that I wanted to ask you about. I have a practical question. Every day I call my wife from work to let her know when I will be home and briefly chat. We have always done this. It feels strange not to do this, but I am wondering if I should stop so as to not come off as pursuing. The problem is that she doesn't mind the calls and often likes them. This would normally lead me to say keep doing it, but we march ever closer to the brink and maybe I should do something else. I am not sure what would be letting go here...calling or not calling. Both seem right and wrong.
You were correct before...I am so indecisve now that it is ridiculous.
