Hi Wonder, I have my hand up Miss-I read it all, but will need to re read.
Not sure why I read it as 6 years on gone is gone but a part of me perhaps still looks for the answer to why even tho I KNOW there is NO answer.
I still struggle with the stats given out for those who come back after affairs. Not what newbies to this forum want to hear though.
Maybe its different for those of us who had long term marriages. Hope all is well for you and your difficulties resolved, let me know how you are doing.