I cannot advise you to go ahead and ask her because of your concern about what "MIGHT" happen. What I would do, would be to put this in the hands of God and pray until I get some kind of an answer on what the best course of action is.
I would DO nothing regarding this, keep making your changes and have a little faith. You are trying to control this. She will sense this and it will send her in the other direction.
I am not a religious person.(but I am very spiritual) I have learned that unless you bring God into this equation you are taking the hardest most difficult road alone. This is a fundemental lesson. DOers must learn not to always do. But to be still and listen in all ways.
Wait. There is no date for mediation yet.
There is no Panacea for what is happening. No quick fixes. Do your best, make the changes that you need for yourself and continue to Db.
Patience is the first and foremost thing you must have.
Those are my thoughts at the moment.
Here's a big hug. (((((((David)))))))
Take care my friend.
Dotto, I will post to you in a little bit. Okay? Hang in there.
