Kansha,

I am also interested in your comments to David. My H is moving out in January he just told me on our way to church. I have expected it and recently encouraged it. He has been to see an attorney but is determined that we remain friends. He has gone to counselling with me recently to "help me get through" this. I also am in David's area and the sessions seem so soon after H moves out. But like David I feel that D will be too far underway to go in April.

My concern is what do they ask when you register? My H will only go on the premis of retaining our friendship therefore needing help with communication. Is this being dishonest about my motives? If they ask him when he registers if he's willing to work on the marriage he will say no.

Any comments?

Dotto