I could have just said....

Get your head out of your A$$ and quit talking to the OW.

Do not talk to her anymore. Not at all. If she calls you are too busy to talk and have nothing that you want to say or hear from her. Get it.

Now saying that you are going to emotionally detatch is a lot easier than actually doing it. I hope that you actually do because I tuely do think that that is the only way you are going to get him back....You need to stop pursuing which you are doing constantly. You know what hi answers are going to be before you even ask him so why put yourself through this sh!t. You are smarter than that. LET GO AND LET GOD LEAD YOU DOWN THE RIGHT PATH. What his is doing and thinking is out of your control.

By the way I still luv ya...


Ben 32
STBXW 29
3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months)
Status: Fighting for the Kids.

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