I am debating asking my spouse to go to Retrouvaille. I do not think that she will agree to go, but think it is worth trying. I have two questions. First, do you have any advice on how to ask? Second, I have had some input (on these boards) suggesting that if you spouse sees no hope (mine does not) that this may be perceived as too much pressure and that just DBing may be better. I have also heard that Retroaville will not help if there is a third party in the wings (I suspect this but have no confirmation).
