You can e-mail me at martelis@hotmail.com. Yes, distancing does seem to work on many of our WA’s.(not mine particularly) I’m glad things are going okay right now. I do think that Retrouvaille could be invaluable to you.
RandyH:
I’m sorry that I don’t know the answer to your question. One of the couples that shared their story mentioned that they had gone so far as to divorce. I don’t know at exactly what part in their story that the divorce happened. But just from what I experienced in the weekend, You both don’t have to make up your minds to want to “fix” things, you just have to agree that you need to find a way to communicate (if just for the sake of the children) and to heal. That was the way I presented the weekend to my H so that he would feel it was okay to go. They do say that the weekend is for married couples so, I guess you either have to have not gotten divorced yet or have gotten remarried before you attend. Hope this helps.
Hi Alex, I didn’t think you had gone to Retrouvaille. I read what you wrote and realized that there were two ways that I could take what you wrote. I decided to pick one and respond to that. Thanks for keeping up with me. I appreciate it. BTW, Congratulations on being able to work on your own projects and being able to be with your children more.
I can’t wait for the follow up this weekend. I am so looking forward to it.
