Kansha: I look for you mail and i didnt find it... How good can be learning to comunicate, bc for me this is the main reason of the troubles in my M... I am glad you both are working, and i hope you can get the best from this experience... Things between my h and i seems better now that i assume a more ditance, detach and not needy behavior... each time i get that actitude, he turns towards me... but i think that if we both dont work on comunication issue, and try to talk about our personal needs, this troubles will get again time to time... thanks for your answer... and ill be in touch