It was beyond my expectations (alright, I had no expectations regarding my H)
This is an extraordinary program.
H really really liked it!!!
It is not a problem solving weekend. You don't get to talk about all the issues. (I was kinda hoping to get some missing pieces to the puzzle)
What you do get to do is build a way of communicating that helps you to heal and creates connection.
I was completely awed by the couples that shared their most intimate feelings. Some of these people were on the brink of divorce and some had divorced.
We have the follow up weekends still. Last night, after we did the homework assignment, we both left my room smiling. My D17 noticed and asked if she and I could do it.
H was very happy that he had gone.
I still can't say that we are back together. But I think it may have set the wheels in motion, only time(more ) will tell.
For us Dbers, it is really gratifying because our WA's learn alot of the things that we wish they would learn. Such as: Love is a decision, trust is a decision. The married single(MLCer). His needs, Her needs. So much that we here, would give our right arm to have our WA's hear. And it is presented in such a non-threatening, healing but incredibly powerful way.
There is no confrontation. You don't even really get to discuss the past except for how it felt.
I want everyone to know that you were all with me. I felt your presence so deeply. And anyone who offered a prayer on our behalf, I thank you deeply, I felt them so much!
On a funny(well depending on how you see it) note, Since H and I are sleeping in separate rooms I asked for 2 double beds so that H wouldn't feel any pressure or pursuit of any kind. And guess what???!!!. The hotel made a mistake and gave us one queen size bed.
Not that it broke the ice,(not even a cuddle or an accidental touch) but it was nice sleeping beside H for a change.
I feel happier and lighter. I think H does too. You all know how I practically had to drag him kicking and screaming to it. Well on Sunday night before he went to bed (still separate) He told me he had a great weekend.
As the weeks go by we shall see how it goes. Thank God for the follow up sessions ( that H is now happy to go to). I think they might address some specific topics.
I will try to post more as the week goes on.
Now, if I could only get him to do Michele's workshop...
) will tell. 
