I think that they have to know that we desire them physically and emotionally. If you are trying to reconnect, you have to do so on all levels of your R. My W and had to do the deed in order for her to know that I could handle that part of our R. It was imperative that she see me as better in that arena of our lives. They do run like rabbits don't they, wouldn't it be nice if they wanted to do something else like rabbits????
At first read I read that you tried to shower with her!!
Sex will do that to ya the first time. Sometimes even the second time. Remember me? After the "first" time it was about 3 months until we had sex again. 3 months and a lot of Dbing!!!!
Hang in there. Hope Pheonix goes well for you. I'll be there next weekend!!!
Ian!!! have fun in Phoenix... shop for some shoes if you can
Glad u are feeling better my friend... and you are soo right. you deserve to be pursued... and give it time and she will be chasing after you I am sure
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher
Hey ladies, stayed in my seat allright..... Game was fantastic, suns won 103-87. Very limited internet access so I am just stopping in to say Hi and that I am doing good. Mind is keeping very busy so all is well.
