H came back from FL yesterday. I picked him up from the airport then we all went as a family to pick up S16's car from the body shop (he is restoring a classic car) then went to dinner as a family. We had a great time. H stayed the night and we had a great time again! I am thrilled he is home but scared of obstacles I have yet to define. DB has been my guide map through this trip on the crazy train but I'm not sure what to do now.

H has told OW NC. He works with her but not in the same building, however he will have to see her at times. I have asked that he tell me when he sees her or speaks to her in any way. H is going to give her the "stuff" OW gave him over the last two years as she asked for it. That should be it with contact.

I am still amazed at the number of things that bring the A to mind daily. Phrases, songs, places etc... I wish I knew how long this phase lasts, any guesstimates?


"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." -Eleanor Roosevelt.
M-42, H-42. M-22yrs, together 27yrs, Sep 5yrs.
D-22, S-18
I'm a survivor