<b>The Good:</b> Went bowling with SIL, H, nieces, and nephew. I was genuiuely enjoying myself so being bubbly and confident was easy. H and I joked around and even made a small wager on our game.
<b>The Bad:</b> Once we got back from bowling, H says he is going out for coffee with his friend. He has been doing that the last several weekends. He was suppose to be back for dinner. When SIL called him to pick something up on the way home, he tells her he will not be coming back for dinner. No call was made to me. H was suppose to leave the next morning about 2-3 am to his business trip. Trying to ignore the hurt/pain, I proceed to finish up the laundry so he may have clean clothes for his trip. I lay out what he may need on the bed. H gets home at about 11pm and packs. As he packs, he tells me a client came into town so he had to go to dinner with him. Then he proceeds to tell me after he showers he will need to go out again to entertain this client. He will be leaving from there to his business trip. I couldn't put on a happy face, but I didn't say anything neither. Not that I didn't believe him. My male cousin was waiting outside for him. They work together. But the part that hurt the most was he didn't want to spend anytime with me before he left. After his shower, he tells me where he had left some cash in case I needed it. Kiss the baby and leaves. I would have asked for a kiss or hug, but I didn't want him to remind me about him asking for no physical contact of any kind. I am sure he would have given me a hug.
<b>Monday morning:</b>
H called about 7am in the morning to let me know he got to his destination safe.
At about 5pm he calls and asks about our baby. She has some conjestion and a cough. After I tell him, he starts to end the call. I ask him if he is tired, and he tells me no and attach some info about what he is doing. The call ends, but no inquiry about how I am or what I am doing.
