Bizarre situation

[geordie]

H,
Thanks for your comments. I appreciate someone reading my long post! My PMA after Christmas seemed to confuse H and he seemed more interested in me. But he knows I can do it on my own - I have always been the one that can cope with everything...his response to bolting (frightened he would lose his soulmate when she moved cities) even though he was the caregiver for our child was because "I knew you would sort it (the childcare) out". His father ran off with another woman when he was a child and he said "well, I turned out OK" (???) so he doesn't seem to be overly concerned about our son. My family is the complete opposite and everything I wanted my marriage to be for my child. I don't believe in D and I cry because of what this is doing to our son who wanders around the house calling for daddy. Up to the A he was a model father and I was so proud of him. I have done so well with some of the DB techniques (mostly!) but am starting to think that nothing is going to work because he seems quite happy with the situation. It's making me physically sick even though I have rarely shown it infront of him in recent months, until this week. I have often wondered if this is also a MLC.