Did you ever tell him who you were on the phone with? I know you say you didn't want to burden him with the financial problems, but if he didn't know that you were talking to the bank, then he might have wondered just who you were talking to, and when there are already trust issues, creating an environment for suspicion to run rife isn't ideal.
The thought crossed my mind, but I didn't. In a way I wanted him to wonder and ask me. At least that would mean he still cared to. Later I talked to him about my younger brother. I think he may just attribute it to my family issues. That would not be out of the ordinary for me.
