Did you ever tell him who you were on the phone with? I know you say you didn't want to burden him with the financial problems, but if he didn't know that you were talking to the bank, then he might have wondered just who you were talking to, and when there are already trust issues, creating an environment for suspicion to run rife isn't ideal.
I didn't. The thought crossed my mind, but I guessed I wished he would have asked me who it was. At least that would tell me he still even cared. Later I did talk to him about my younger brother. I am sure he thinks I am having issues with my family. That would not be out of the ordinary for me.
