Thanks everybody! tonite was BR Dance II lesson 3 and w told me, when I questioned a sequence she was doing, "I'm always right, don't you know that!" I still don't know if that was a serious statement or she was just playing with me! She was smirking somewhat. She was in a great mood tonight and we actually laughed loudly together at one of our screw ups. It felt good to laugh TOGETHER at something again. On the way to class (we actually small talked in the car) and she asked me if I intended to go every Mon to my aerobics class. I said I hoped to but had also told the teacher I probably would miss a few. She said "I have always held off planning anything for Monday because i wanted to preserve at least one family night for us all. You can do what you like but that was my hope anyway" She had the opportunity to take a different class on Mondays but stayed with Friday (although its not as good a class) because she wanted to keep that night open. I replied that I understood her point and could make some changes to my schedule to keep at least one night open. Between our individual schedules and the kids activities it's tough to do. I have now adjusted my schedule, after consulting with her, and we have come up with a plan the works for everybody! Wow, a nice night and team work! I gotta lie down. BTW the aerobics I do is called Nia (No Impact Aerobics) it is a combination of martial arts, yoga, Tai Chi, dance, and much more. It is all put together to music and is a damn good workout! If anybody wants to work off some stress, get some cardio in then check out nia-nia.com for more info. Just remember, all you lonely guys, you'd probably be the only male in the class, I know I am!!