That's called GAL!!!!! HUGE kudos to you dude!!!! It does feel good to GAL. I remember the last two years of my marriage feeling sort of blah and unloved (and I didn't have an affair!), and GALing sort of "woke me up." Kind of like "sleeping beauty" waking up after living in some dream. It's nice to "live" again.

So keep GALing (church, aerobics, yoga... even parasailing if you're near some water!!!) and building the PMA!!!

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.