My H had an affair and it continued for two years. He moved out and then moved back home after 9 months and continued the A off and on. During this time we were working things out. The OW worked with him and it was only after my H finally quit and got another job that it finally ended. Contact continued for sometime after he left and finally my H came clean with me and trusted in us enough to tell me the truth. For so long my H was threatened by her and that she would tell me things. What my H didnt realize is that there wasnt anything I didnt already know or at least suspect. Anyway he finally ended it last April however the OW keeps creeping back into our lives by writing emails. Last week she wrote one to my H that said Hi justed want to check in on you and wish you a happy belated New year. Hope this years brings the best for you. H didnt answer so yesterday she sends another email... I quess you dont want to talk or stay in touch. I know we had some bad times but we had good times too and its still difficult for me not to be in touch.
These emails really bother me. I want to write OW a letter and tell her to move on with her life and stop trying to stay in contact. My H doesnt respond to her calls or emails he thinks that is the best way for it to die, yet its been happening since April. I really think she cant stand the fact that he has chosen me and moved on.
Do you think I should write the letter or ignore her
