Oh come on Corri. You forgot to add that your inner gremlin is also satisfied that I'm getting a taste of the LD side, too. I *know* you well enough to know that's true! lol
I have a gremlin satifaction over you getting a monthly period and grey hair ... I wouldn't wish LDness on anyone.
So you've gone through great growth as an HD lady. Your 'change' is going to bother him, to be sure. Hopefully he will understand that he is now facing his own growth (having to step up to the plate in the initiation dept), and not pull that anger stuff on you anymore. I hope you make it very clear to him that that must stop. It can be unbelievably damaging, not only to your sex drive, but to your psyche.
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Tease him....well, he wouldn't keep pursuing me. He'd just stop and be pissed off. Our whole entire marriage is based on me being ridiculously available and responsive so he can't wrap his mind around the fact that he may have to work at it a little.
I meant tease him in bed, but I can see where you'd still say that would piss him off. Wow, he never really appreciated what he had until it was gone.
Do you remember MHJ... shite, she's been gone so long now I can' remember her handle... do you know who I'm talking about? She was LD and she found her groove... I remember her saying to her H, as a way of explaining her own frustration to him over her LDness... "you think your frustrated... how do you think I feel? Here I am, a normal, healthy, sexually active woman, and then **poof** my sex drive goes. How do you think you'd feel as a man to have your sex drive go poof?"
It didn't fix the problem for her, certainly, but it did give her H an understanding of her plight, and allowed him to be a bit more empathetic toward her (helped him lose the anger).
That's the only thing I'd be worried for you over... the anger... the rest you will figure out in your determined HP way.
